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- $Title{What Can be Done to Help an Anorexic?}
- $Subject{anorexia signs mental emotional conditions anorexic eating disorder
- food eats less secretive vomiting bulimic female adolescents nutritional
- behavior behaviors foods diet diets dietary nervosa condition eat bulimia}
- $Volume{E-23, E-26}
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- What Can be Done to Help an Anorexic?
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- QUESTION: I don't wish to be an over possessive mother, but my daughter's
- actions and condition make me very suspicious that she may be anorexic. She
- is not at all her outgoing self, and we no longer can talk to one another.
- What can I do to help her? I need your help very much.
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- ANSWER: Thanks to a media that dwells on our nation's psyche, we've become
- somewhat of an educated people. We are probably more alert to subtle
- character changes in the people that live and work around us and therefore can
- step forward to assist at a much earlier stage of a disease or condition than
- ever before. This can be tremendously important in conditions such as the one
- you now face. Challenged by the possibility of an eating disorder in one you
- love, suspicions may lead to more precise observations, which in turn can be
- the first necessary step towards decisive and appropriate actions. Become an
- aware and concerned observer of your daughter's habits and seek the answers to
- these questions. Are the amounts of food she eats much less than normal? Has
- she become suddenly secretive? Does she spend a great deal of time in the
- bathroom with the water running, possibly disguising the sounds of vomiting,
- common to the bulimic? The anorexic will starve away; the bulimic is a binge
- eater, who then purges herself of her food. Both disorders are most common in
- female adolescents.
- If these signs are clear cut, gently but firmly confront your daughter
- with your suspicions. Do not let your own anxiety affect your attitude, but
- be the warm, loving mother your letter shows you to be. Convince your
- daughter that you only wish to help her, and stay away from any guilt
- producing comments. Then get your doctor on board. Though both disorders
- demand long psychological counseling, the primary consideration is the
- nutritional state of the patient, something which must be dealt with at once.
- So call your physician now for further guidance and assistance in following
- additional avenues of support for your daughter.
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- The material contained here is "FOR INFORMATION ONLY" and should not replace
- the counsel and advice of your personal physician. Promptly consulting your
- doctor is the best path to a quick and successful resolution of any medical
- problem.
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